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It's been almost a year again since i last blog. :/

So many things have changed throughout this 1 year..
My internship has ended, I've graduated from my University, quit all my part time jobs and lastly i am a full timer worker now..

Being a full timer worker.. Working in the real society world now..
Although the feeling felts just like how it is when i worked in my part time jobs previously, a slight different was that, this is the real shit.
Real shit to get into and real shit to deal with everyday at work..



Hi,

It's been a week since i came back to my blog.

Been a busy week at Work and rushing for my assignments at the same time.
Finally get to go back to my Malaysia home for the weekend, had a good rest and hate to come back for the busy and boring matters.

When 6 months internship period was so bored and hard to pull through... :(
It's been almost four months since i started my internship, but the things that i have done up till now, can be compared to be a one to two months work load for the other staff.
Thought that i could be learning more than these when i am going through for my internship.
But i guess, i was wrong...

Why do interns have to be treated differently?
Is there a need for that?

Yes, interns might be cheap labour, they only work for short period of time, but afterall they are out to the working environment to learn something and gain more knowledge on what they are learning in school.
Some people might have working experience before and some might not.
Student have to struggle through those hard period as a training before they "officially" enter into the social world.

Most of the company misuse/mistreat the interns.
Such as, asking them to do things for them that are not related to work; Asking them to work overtime (Which they are not suppose to); Ordering them around the workplace.
Not giving them proper task and some interns might go back to school learning nothing much.
Not giving them much learning opportunities.
Whenever they can push any blames, they will push it towards the Interns as "it is much easier"...

Yes, when someone is at fault you need to tell them. But someone doesn't means just one person themself should be scolded or lectured by the boss or supervisor.

For example,
There was mistakes done at work and three person was at fault.
One person is a Manager,
One person is a Full Timer,
One person is a Intern.
Is the boss suppose to be talking and advicing three person on the mistakes done at work?
OR
Should the boss be only accusing and lecturing the Intern on the mistakes done at work?

It's not complaining, but the speaking of justice and fairness..
Everyone deserve to be treated fairly no matter in what terms, what situation and never the less, who you are.
Even when bosses made mistakes at work, the boss should also apologise too.
It's not the pride or ego that matters, but how you can make someone respect you for who you are.

"A true leader is one who is humble enough to admit their mistakes."

Interns doesn't means that they are or should be the easy target.
Personal matters should be done on the person themself and not asking the interns to do it for them.
Such as, picking up accessories or helping to get the limited items on sales.
If you bosses want to get those items, please get it on your own during your own free time. Not making use of the interns to help you getting your own personal "wanted" items.
Helping your colleagues with their working task or to search for some information, but to found out that they already found the information themselves.
Not even a thank you was said or a sign of gratefulness was shown when we interns helped you with your work task.

Appreciate when someone helps you.
Like how you finally find a information that you needed badly, that's how hard others tried to find it for you too.
Be grateful when people fork out a little of their time for you, cause you will never know how that short little amount of time means so much for the other person.


Nevertheless, treat everyone nicely and be fair, be kind and teach them nicely.
Not everyone is born being good, everyone have to start from the buttom too isn't it?
Scold when needed to but not when wanting to.
Lecturing and punish when needed to, but not when you want to.
Control your temper and talk with the right tone.
A word with different tone can means many things.



Finally ended work and finally able to lie on my bed now.

In just one day, many things happened and many things are running through in my mind..
All i heard and seen today were all about..Kindness.
I couldn't understand sometimes why some people would think that they should have a reason to help people..
Or they felt that it wasn't really necessary to help other people because they thinks that if you help someone while others don't, it means that you are just being a busy body.
It's not, honestly and more than a 100% assurance that being helpful and showing kindness IS NOT something to be embarrassed about!

I don't get it why, i really don't get it..
Let me tell you a story.. and it's definitely a true story that had just happened earlier yesterday morning.

Early morning and many people were waiting for bus at the bus stop, there's a lady who is sitting beside me carrying a lot of bags with her.
Her bus came, and she was rushing to grab all her bags while rushing to board onto the bus.
While in a rush, she missed out one of her bags when she stood up from the bench.
I was calling for her but she didn't heard me, i hold up her bag waving towards her when she was boarding the bus.
Everyone at the bus stop saw what i did, but guess what?
All of them were just looking at me, looking at the lady, but not a single word or actions came out from them. Not even did they stopped the bus driver from closing the door.
Worst thing was that, the bus driver did saw me looking and calling for the lady while holding up the bag. Despite seeing what i did, he was preparing to close the bus door and drive off.
Quickly i stood up and ran towards the bus door with the bag before the bus head off, i even had to tell the bus driver to not drive off the bus and wait for me to pass the bag to the lady.
He was like preparing to shut the door, as if that was the bus that i want to board on.
NO!
After passing the bag to the lady and getting of the bus, i can feel all the eyes are just looking staring at me.
I wasn't embarrassed, i'm really not.
I'm not embarrassed of the fact that because the lady was sitting beside me so it was a must or necessary for me to help her, because i was sitting near to her. I'm not embarrassed of the fact that i was being stared and look at while i was calling out for the lady and rushing up the pass to pass the bag to the lady.
I was embarrassed for the fact that, there were so many people at the bus stop but no one did anything to help me. All they do was to just stare and look at the lady and I, not even helping me to call out for the bus driver or the lady.
Their staring eyes saw me calling out for the lady, but they were just looking at the lady while she hurried to board the bus. Nothing, NOTHING came out from their mouth or through their body language or hand-sign.
It just clearly shows that, they did not want to help out or have any thoughts of helping out too.

Yes, in the eyes of the others, i might be such a busy body, or just some cast of a drama or movie, that i'm trying to act out some kind of kindness. Hence to me, they are some cast of a drama or movie of the characters who are not giving a damn thing about what is happening to others except for themselves.
There is one thing that i can never understand...
Why did they not help out the lady or by helping me to just call out the lady or the bus driver?
Just because i was sitting beside the lady? Just because i'm nearer to her?
Was it because they thought it was just necessary for me to help rather than them?
I don't know.. I just can't understand why..
Many other people were at the bus stop too, There are people sitting or standing beside her aside from me too.
But why...
What's the lost?


Honestly.. I can never understand why some people need to have such bad temper..
Are all the dramas created honestly needed?
I don't think so!

Hate it the most when someone put their temper on me when i did nothing wrong at all.
When the conversation was just harmless or casual, and suddenly someone shouted.
There it goes..
Here comes the silence and there goes the drama acting.
Both people are not talking to each other and the silence fight starts inside the mind.
No one wants to apologise, nor does anyone wants to take the first step to start talking.
Cause' both person are just so mad with each other.
For what?
I would say, for nothing. An exact anwser, "Nothing!"

When words that are spoken out can never be taken back,
no matter how badly you wish the person could forget and forgive you for that..
The person who you shouted at earlier is already badly hurt deep inside.
Causing the person to start acting weird in terms of that, he or she can't chat comfortably with you as they are so scare that the next word that they say will be the start of the fire for you.
Even when they forget about what happened before, the next time when you let off guard from your temper again, how will the person felt again?
Have you ever thought of that?
Yes, some people might be able to accept and tolerate with the attitude as to accept to who you are. But that doesn't means that, everyone is born to please you for you bad temper.
Treat others like how you want others to treat you back.
If you yourself do not like the way when people show bad attitude to you, then you shouldn't do that to others too.

Before the times when you ever starts to shout at someone badly, why not think about what was the reason he or she said that something to you?
After the person explain or go on with the conversation which was extremely harmless..
Do you think that the screaming and shouting was necessary needed or not?
Never hurt someone's feeling and not apologising to the mistake that you have done.
Remember, everyone deserves a happy life. Not by pleasing everyone in their life.
Even if that person is your family, best friends, good friends or even your schoolmates or colleagues.
No one deserves to be treated badly in any ways.





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